yrr this has happened to me so many times and then I feel like I am disturbing that person
BloomSilken on
When the vibe check get denied
MMWYPcom on
“It’s going.”
DeelicateDolll on
Bro is giving me one-word answers like they cost money
bambamba8 on
I’m the person that respond in monosyllables, I’m sorry, you’re not inconviniencing us, we just don’t know how to speak with people one the phone
Austin12509 on
A lot of women think guys cant carry a conversation, but lemme tell you…y’all women think you hold shit down and it is the exact opposite. Especially on dating apps…Holy shit y’all think you shit gold… its like talking to a brick wall. My back hurts so much from carrying the conversation Atlas looks at me and goes, “damn bro I thought I had it bad! Geez…”
GlowPouts on
Just send a meme at this point
batman8232 on
Ok
Fury_Blackwolf on
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PussyIchiban on
Some people are just hopelessly bad at texting.
I’d say try talking to them on the phone or discord or something people act like they’re allergic to that too.
As always, the answer is to go out and touch grass
trolldadbonaza on
When I was single my moto was energy in better match my energy out in messages, so I’m gone if I got basic one-three word responses. Not worth my time.
Xieties777 on
“Yeah”
Crafty_Aspect8122 on
Sometimes it’s intentional
blackcray on
Hi, this is me, I’m aware of the issue so I don’t blame you for not wanting to continue, I just don’t know how to sustain a one on one conversation in person, I’m trying my best but realize that my best is still awful.
SaucyStoveTop69 on
When you wanna conversate but youre autistic so everybody calls you dry and boring.
When you wanna be less dry and boring but you’re autistic so the same “everybody” calls you wierd and annoying.
Beastmode7953 on
Cut the loss every single time this happens, I guarantee there’s nothing left for you in that convo and likely with that person if they didn’t give a shit to keep talking
White-Rabbit_1106 on
That’s what people do when they don’t want to talk to you. Just leave them be.
Smilesrck on
Man is that a hint being picked up?
SophSimpl on
I’ve had many people tell me they wanted to talk on multiple occasions, but will disappear mid-conversation, leave on read, miss/skip replies to something or give really basic ass replies. It’s like most people under the age of 30 actually don’t have unique personalities anymore. They have the desire for human connection but don’t have the ability for it.
Prudent_Ad4401 on
doesn’t 1k upvotes sound a little bit too much?
OddArmadillo4959 on
What kind of a microwave do you have?
deadlygaming11 on
I had this with a woman a fair few times when I was young. She didnt mind talking to me and I quite liked talking to her as we clicked quite well (I rarely have that so its important to me) and the conversations would be so dry that it was so hard to communicate with her sometimes. I’m autistic so I’m not going to get hints so if you dont want to talk to me, TELL ME
Stoney-McBoney on
I always took that to be the point.
Longjumping_Visit718 on
Ye. Happens pal…
LustyDouglas on
Some people, like myself (30m), prefer phone calls. A little old fashioned by todays standards but its better than the eternal conversation that texting is and you get to hear their voice!
qkeptz on
I just suck at communicating and come off as rude or bored, but i just don’t know how to respond.
Wongus-Bongus on
So many fucking times. Might be that it isn’t even their intention
rosyboys_daisygirls on
talking to my dad:
StochasticTinkr on
Depending on your relationship, you can always continue it with something like “That was so blunt, how am I supposed to keep the conversation going?”
bornlasttuesday on
What you want and what they want are two different things.
gamenride on
Well yeah its you talking at them
BobbyTheDude on
This is why I don’t do texting anymore. If you wanna talk, we can talk in person.
Durokash on
If the woman shows no effort, simply unmatch her. It’s pointless, and she can get her attention elsewhere. It’s that simple.
SpeakingLawgically07 on
Just tslk to another girl 😂
painki11erzx on
“What have you been up to?”
“Not much.”
Batehripi on
that means they didnt want to keep talking which means you should respect that
fujin_shinto on
Most women ever tbh. They cant hold a conversation longer than 5 seconds if drama isnt involved.
Wrong-Landscape-2508 on
“yes”
Viviqt08 on
Even as a girl trying to find another girl to date the ones that do match are so fking dry vro like im just convinced they are bots bruh 😭
ImEatonNass on
Take that as a sign that whoever you are messaging with doesn’t want to chat.
Bilore on
Just repeat the last part of what they said but as a question.
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yrr this has happened to me so many times and then I feel like I am disturbing that person
When the vibe check get denied
“It’s going.”
Bro is giving me one-word answers like they cost money
I’m the person that respond in monosyllables, I’m sorry, you’re not inconviniencing us, we just don’t know how to speak with people one the phone
A lot of women think guys cant carry a conversation, but lemme tell you…y’all women think you hold shit down and it is the exact opposite. Especially on dating apps…Holy shit y’all think you shit gold… its like talking to a brick wall. My back hurts so much from carrying the conversation Atlas looks at me and goes, “damn bro I thought I had it bad! Geez…”
Just send a meme at this point
Ok
.
Some people are just hopelessly bad at texting.
I’d say try talking to them on the phone or discord or something people act like they’re allergic to that too.
As always, the answer is to go out and touch grass
When I was single my moto was energy in better match my energy out in messages, so I’m gone if I got basic one-three word responses. Not worth my time.
“Yeah”
Sometimes it’s intentional
Hi, this is me, I’m aware of the issue so I don’t blame you for not wanting to continue, I just don’t know how to sustain a one on one conversation in person, I’m trying my best but realize that my best is still awful.
When you wanna conversate but youre autistic so everybody calls you dry and boring.
When you wanna be less dry and boring but you’re autistic so the same “everybody” calls you wierd and annoying.
Cut the loss every single time this happens, I guarantee there’s nothing left for you in that convo and likely with that person if they didn’t give a shit to keep talking
That’s what people do when they don’t want to talk to you. Just leave them be.
Man is that a hint being picked up?
I’ve had many people tell me they wanted to talk on multiple occasions, but will disappear mid-conversation, leave on read, miss/skip replies to something or give really basic ass replies. It’s like most people under the age of 30 actually don’t have unique personalities anymore. They have the desire for human connection but don’t have the ability for it.
doesn’t 1k upvotes sound a little bit too much?
What kind of a microwave do you have?
I had this with a woman a fair few times when I was young. She didnt mind talking to me and I quite liked talking to her as we clicked quite well (I rarely have that so its important to me) and the conversations would be so dry that it was so hard to communicate with her sometimes. I’m autistic so I’m not going to get hints so if you dont want to talk to me, TELL ME
I always took that to be the point.
Ye. Happens pal…
Some people, like myself (30m), prefer phone calls. A little old fashioned by todays standards but its better than the eternal conversation that texting is and you get to hear their voice!
I just suck at communicating and come off as rude or bored, but i just don’t know how to respond.
So many fucking times. Might be that it isn’t even their intention
talking to my dad:
Depending on your relationship, you can always continue it with something like “That was so blunt, how am I supposed to keep the conversation going?”
What you want and what they want are two different things.
Well yeah its you talking at them
This is why I don’t do texting anymore. If you wanna talk, we can talk in person.
If the woman shows no effort, simply unmatch her. It’s pointless, and she can get her attention elsewhere. It’s that simple.
Just tslk to another girl 😂
“What have you been up to?”
“Not much.”
that means they didnt want to keep talking which means you should respect that
Most women ever tbh. They cant hold a conversation longer than 5 seconds if drama isnt involved.
“yes”
Even as a girl trying to find another girl to date the ones that do match are so fking dry vro like im just convinced they are bots bruh 😭
Take that as a sign that whoever you are messaging with doesn’t want to chat.
Just repeat the last part of what they said but as a question.
1-“How have you been doing?”
2-“Ok.”
1-“Ok?”