If you have a girlfriend/wife/whatever, you are now verified. Someone else has checked you and decided that you’re worthy of spending time with.
Ergo all these women see that you’re verified and have decided that if someone else wants you then you must be desirable which is why they want you too.
Before you were unverified and none of them wanted to verify you. They just wanted to try and reap the benefits if someone else did the hard work of verifying.
Bigmares on
nice repost
Brokenspade1 on
I will never understand WHY tho.
I never got hit on while I was single. I’ve had multiple girls shoot their shot while im hanging WITH my girlfriend… Also I’m not a pretty man. I look like a damn thumb.
Can SOMEBODY explain why this is a thing?
energizerturtle2 on
How I thought getting a vasectomy would be like.
res0jyyt1 on
And you wake up right afterwards
Bumblingbee1337 on
Some of it has to do with you being more confident and thinking you’re worth dating because you are dating. So you misconstrue it into thinking more people want you than actually do.
naneron10 on
Sometimes you become one of the gorls and it’s not a problem
Ikyhus565 on
Yep can verify this is accurate
ElliottPicasso on
If you cant get a woman just become one
Particular_Win2752 on
This is a true thing.
_RawRTooN_ on
works like a charm every time 60% of the time.
dmelt01 on
Everyone thinks it’s confidence but it’s really that you treat women differently. I’ve seen single guys trying to hit on everything. Then this same person calms down and treats any woman like a friend would. Turns out women don’t like men drooling over them.
Suitable_Community66 on
I love this episode of Buffy it’s called Bewitched
Prodi1600 on
Worst part it’s when you’re married and they see the ring, man I have never in my life been approached by women but after I got the ring, it became quite crazy I feel like an expert in dodgeball fr
The_Scotion on
One of the weirdest things I’ve done is wear my great grandfather’s old wedding ring while out on the town or at a party where most people wouldn’t know me, fucking thing acted like an enchanted item with a boost to charisma
Excellent_Range4572 on
Hoes ain’t shit.
The karma of screwing over a good woman is the slag you’ll end up, with.
Choices.
Moreinius on
I remember an askreddit post where a woman said it’s also possible because that a man is taken, it’s easier for woman to approach them and start a normal conversation without confusing it as flirting.
JustMCW on
Maybe its simply you have became more attractive in general. You have to be somewhat attractive in some way to have a partner in the first place
alexdiezg on
POV actually used correctly for once
luximus-lxms on
I can agree. The moment i got together, suddenly more are interested as well
GiraffeWABowlerHat on
Hey maybe women just feel more comfortable around you and act normal. Like maybe they have to act reserved 90% of the time with men because their friendliness is often misinterpreted as flirting. But now that you’re in a relationship they’re not worried you’ll take it the wrong way. Just a theory.
ResolveLeather on
It’s because of the drama. It’s kinda hot for many women to take another person boyfriend. It’s drama and all of that.
Ordinary-Recipe-5248 on
I have never experienced this
No-Comparison5311 on
There’s a Seinfeld episode about this
raiodocachopo on
People are talking about the “verified” theory.
It’s way more than that. It goes into the realm of why women are evil to each other.
The tribe had very few good providers. So women would compete with each other to gain access to those resources.
Now we evolved into this. A women sees a man that is giving resources to another woman. And her little pre-historic brain wants those resources to be hers.
anythingfordopamine on
The whole verified thing is one element. But I think the biggest thing is you’re no longer talking to women with ulterior motives and just interacting with them like normal human beings. For a lot of single guys, the only time ya’ll are interacting with women is when you’re attracted to them and you want them to like you. It makes you reek of desperation and seem inauthentic
Creepy-Investment211 on
Oh, so never
Barulamir on
These ain’t girls. They’re hoes. Only hoes try for a taken man… Men who go for take women are hoes too.
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They are staring at a blank wall 🥀
People want what they don’t have.

Well hello
It’s pretty simple.
If you have a girlfriend/wife/whatever, you are now verified. Someone else has checked you and decided that you’re worthy of spending time with.
Ergo all these women see that you’re verified and have decided that if someone else wants you then you must be desirable which is why they want you too.
Before you were unverified and none of them wanted to verify you. They just wanted to try and reap the benefits if someone else did the hard work of verifying.
nice repost
I will never understand WHY tho.
I never got hit on while I was single. I’ve had multiple girls shoot their shot while im hanging WITH my girlfriend… Also I’m not a pretty man. I look like a damn thumb.
Can SOMEBODY explain why this is a thing?
How I thought getting a vasectomy would be like.
And you wake up right afterwards
Some of it has to do with you being more confident and thinking you’re worth dating because you are dating. So you misconstrue it into thinking more people want you than actually do.
Sometimes you become one of the gorls and it’s not a problem
Yep can verify this is accurate
If you cant get a woman just become one
This is a true thing.
works like a charm every time 60% of the time.
Everyone thinks it’s confidence but it’s really that you treat women differently. I’ve seen single guys trying to hit on everything. Then this same person calms down and treats any woman like a friend would. Turns out women don’t like men drooling over them.
I love this episode of Buffy it’s called Bewitched
Worst part it’s when you’re married and they see the ring, man I have never in my life been approached by women but after I got the ring, it became quite crazy I feel like an expert in dodgeball fr
One of the weirdest things I’ve done is wear my great grandfather’s old wedding ring while out on the town or at a party where most people wouldn’t know me, fucking thing acted like an enchanted item with a boost to charisma
Hoes ain’t shit.
The karma of screwing over a good woman is the slag you’ll end up, with.
Choices.
I remember an askreddit post where a woman said it’s also possible because that a man is taken, it’s easier for woman to approach them and start a normal conversation without confusing it as flirting.
Maybe its simply you have became more attractive in general. You have to be somewhat attractive in some way to have a partner in the first place
POV actually used correctly for once
I can agree. The moment i got together, suddenly more are interested as well
Hey maybe women just feel more comfortable around you and act normal. Like maybe they have to act reserved 90% of the time with men because their friendliness is often misinterpreted as flirting. But now that you’re in a relationship they’re not worried you’ll take it the wrong way. Just a theory.
It’s because of the drama. It’s kinda hot for many women to take another person boyfriend. It’s drama and all of that.
I have never experienced this
There’s a Seinfeld episode about this
People are talking about the “verified” theory.
It’s way more than that. It goes into the realm of why women are evil to each other.
The tribe had very few good providers. So women would compete with each other to gain access to those resources.
Now we evolved into this. A women sees a man that is giving resources to another woman. And her little pre-historic brain wants those resources to be hers.
The whole verified thing is one element. But I think the biggest thing is you’re no longer talking to women with ulterior motives and just interacting with them like normal human beings. For a lot of single guys, the only time ya’ll are interacting with women is when you’re attracted to them and you want them to like you. It makes you reek of desperation and seem inauthentic
Oh, so never
These ain’t girls. They’re hoes. Only hoes try for a taken man… Men who go for take women are hoes too.