That is the worst

    by CasualNameAccount12

    34 Comments

    1. Nothing ruins a ten faster than the realization she smells like a stale ashtray.

    2. This.

      As a former dating-app user, I passed up a lot of women just because they smoked. People told me I was picky but I don’t want to deal with somebody who has an addictive habit so disgusting and expensive.

    3. I think that the younger generations – including me btw – are way, way too picky. There’s no such thing as a perfect partner. Contentious points that once-upon-a-time would have been worked out are considered grounds for breaking up and moving on in the endless search for unobtainable perfection. Ffs – if they’re kind, appreciate you, are admirable in themselves, then smoking is not a huge deal. They might well stop and a loving relationship can help that… it did with me. Just try and learn to appreciate people for who they are and recognise that they weren’t designed in a machine to be your ideal partner.

    4. Where are you finding women that smoke? As a man that smokes, I have yet to find anyone in the last five years of my 30’s lol

    5. Nah, getting upset about it is the worst. Because you’re assuming she’d even swipe right on you.

    6. Terrible_Truth on

      I saw a woman’s profile that got more sus as I scrolled through the images. Last image was her in a MAGA cap. Yeah naw bruh.

    7. I’ve come to lower my standards on dating apps. Smoking is such a turn off for me but when 90% of the options on there smoke, you gotta redraw the line. Besides, even if you don’t like it doesn’t mean you won’t like them.

    8. May I ask why so many people are quick to poke at smokers? Perhaps it’s because I’ve been raised by smokers and am simply used to it, even before I started smoking. I understand the health risks and smell, but in my experience if a formal event requires a person to be presentable, wouldn’t perfume be mandatory just as much as a nice outfit? As far as health risks go, almost every individual who I know that smokes, including myself, wants to die regardless. When with others I usually ask if they are comfortable if I light something up.

      I’m not making excuses, I admit I’m a bitter smoker. I’m just trying to understand why the instantaneous and harsh reception of it, when I’ve found a sense of camaraderie lighting someone’s cigarette or cigar for them and having mine lit while we talk. Not excusing those who smoke at bad times or small spaces and inconvenience or harm others, of course.

    9. JustMeDownHere01 on

      I didn’t quit smoking a pack a day just for my SO to do the same.

      It’s not that difficult to see that people want to date other people with similar morals and standards, I don’t get why all these filter munchers are so upset about it.

    10. Is she amazing? People have habits, don’t let a nasty habit rob you from a beautiful experience.

    11. iAmTheDanger991 on

      If she’s hot, then she’s even hotter while smoking idc.
      Though i’m also a smoker…

    12. Cute how these “preferences” are always directed towards women. As if OP (and commenters) is some prized catch that everyone is dying to get with. Let alone a 10.

      You can see why there’s a male loneliness epidemic

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