This is why I won’t have kids I can barely take care of myself I ain’t gonna do that to someone
Crocs-OnMy-Feet on
Don’t have kids. Problem solved.
Fallout94 on
The worst is when you get unsolicited advice from dads that don’t live with their kids
coma-orange7337 on
I’m gonna let guys who don’t have kids in on a little secret. If you’re doing it right in the first year, you’re both too tired for sex. If you’re doing it wrong, you’re just a dick who doesn’t deserve to be called a father.
You’re not getting laid either way. Just do the right thing.
Grand_Dog_5247 on
“planes that land safely don’t make the news”
Simple_Yoghurt_2681 on
I live next to this family who has like 5 kids, the parents are dogshit.
For example:
1. The kids went to juvie like 3 times (the oldest is 14 btw)
2. They live in a tiny duplex
3. The parents are never home
4. Kids tried poisoning the other neighbors dog
5. The youngest (like maybe 7 years old?) Was waiting for the school bus without a jacket when it was snowing out (btw the dad literally has a brand new pickup truck too)
Idk shit is insane, some “adults” shouldn’t be parents.
shit_magnet-0730 on
As a first time father of a 2 year old at 40, I couldn’t fathom not wanting to be there for my child at all times.
Shinjetsu01 on
There’s another element that men need to get used to.
She now loves something more than she will ever love you. It’s hard to accept, you used to be the thing she loved most, but now she no longer does. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. Quite the contrary, you’ve given her a child and she loves you for it. But that also means her priorities change. As yours should too.
The top comment says if you’re doing it right you should both be too tired and I’d agree with that. But if you love the child right, more than her and she loves it more than you – that’s a lucky kid and it was right to bring them into the world.
So, the lesson is to accept that she doesn’t love you less. She loves something else more. You should too. Because then you can share that love with each other and your relationship will become something very powerful.
Delicious_Injury9444 on
I changed them all and read to them, until they didn’t want me to anymore.
Still driving one around. Hoping he’ll get a job.
SucideHotLine552 on
I mean if one wants to have the perks of being able to fuck their sexy loving wife it would makes sense to work together in life to keep eachother stress free and comfortable. ❤️
frozenbudz on
I’m sure this happens, but as a dad with pretty much exclusively other parents for friends. I never see this in real life, every dad I know is a very involved father. I really hope the whole deadbeat dad stereotype finally dies.
WXHIII on
Not how ive seen any fathers act lol
CLeeTheHunt44 on
Think they were kidding when they said “Happy Wife Happy Life”?
LordButtworth on
Lol. I worked the second shift and fed and changed the kids all night, and played video games in-between. Mornings were my evenings/nights.
Increase_Empty on
Do what you can, not what you can’t. And don’t expect something to not be your job just off role. If you are less busy than her, help
NixAName on
The second worst thing any married couple can go through is a prolonged period without sleep.
Even if both parties do their part, it’s rough.
Tankette55 on
Better not to have kids then.
TheGoochAssassin on
Where did a bitter mom find the time to make this meme?
Destroyer1559 on
Alternatively, don’t marry a loser and you’re fine lol.
Enough-Towel-2834 on
Parents of young kids aren’t having alot of sex. Most aren’t ready for the sacrifice, time, attention and volume of tasks required to be a parent.
If this load isn’t shared, it leads to frustration and more exhaustion. Hard to get in the mood when you cant get enough sleep.
Chanchechan on
As a father of 3, can confirm. Hence why there’s 3!! Lmaooooo. I love my kids alot tho.
RjoTTU-bio on
Most millennial dads I know are super helpful with their kids. I’m not saying we deserve a medal or something, but maybe less criticism in general. I do all the late nights myself since it is so easy for me to fall back asleep. I also do non-stop activities and chores on my days off so my wife can work.
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This is why I won’t have kids I can barely take care of myself I ain’t gonna do that to someone
Don’t have kids. Problem solved.
The worst is when you get unsolicited advice from dads that don’t live with their kids
I’m gonna let guys who don’t have kids in on a little secret. If you’re doing it right in the first year, you’re both too tired for sex. If you’re doing it wrong, you’re just a dick who doesn’t deserve to be called a father.
You’re not getting laid either way. Just do the right thing.
“planes that land safely don’t make the news”
I live next to this family who has like 5 kids, the parents are dogshit.
For example:
1. The kids went to juvie like 3 times (the oldest is 14 btw)
2. They live in a tiny duplex
3. The parents are never home
4. Kids tried poisoning the other neighbors dog
5. The youngest (like maybe 7 years old?) Was waiting for the school bus without a jacket when it was snowing out (btw the dad literally has a brand new pickup truck too)
Idk shit is insane, some “adults” shouldn’t be parents.
As a first time father of a 2 year old at 40, I couldn’t fathom not wanting to be there for my child at all times.
There’s another element that men need to get used to.
She now loves something more than she will ever love you. It’s hard to accept, you used to be the thing she loved most, but now she no longer does. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. Quite the contrary, you’ve given her a child and she loves you for it. But that also means her priorities change. As yours should too.
The top comment says if you’re doing it right you should both be too tired and I’d agree with that. But if you love the child right, more than her and she loves it more than you – that’s a lucky kid and it was right to bring them into the world.
So, the lesson is to accept that she doesn’t love you less. She loves something else more. You should too. Because then you can share that love with each other and your relationship will become something very powerful.
I changed them all and read to them, until they didn’t want me to anymore.
Still driving one around. Hoping he’ll get a job.
I mean if one wants to have the perks of being able to fuck their sexy loving wife it would makes sense to work together in life to keep eachother stress free and comfortable. ❤️
I’m sure this happens, but as a dad with pretty much exclusively other parents for friends. I never see this in real life, every dad I know is a very involved father. I really hope the whole deadbeat dad stereotype finally dies.
Not how ive seen any fathers act lol
Think they were kidding when they said “Happy Wife Happy Life”?
Lol. I worked the second shift and fed and changed the kids all night, and played video games in-between. Mornings were my evenings/nights.
Do what you can, not what you can’t. And don’t expect something to not be your job just off role. If you are less busy than her, help
The second worst thing any married couple can go through is a prolonged period without sleep.
Even if both parties do their part, it’s rough.
Better not to have kids then.
Where did a bitter mom find the time to make this meme?
Alternatively, don’t marry a loser and you’re fine lol.
Parents of young kids aren’t having alot of sex. Most aren’t ready for the sacrifice, time, attention and volume of tasks required to be a parent.
If this load isn’t shared, it leads to frustration and more exhaustion. Hard to get in the mood when you cant get enough sleep.
As a father of 3, can confirm. Hence why there’s 3!! Lmaooooo. I love my kids alot tho.
Most millennial dads I know are super helpful with their kids. I’m not saying we deserve a medal or something, but maybe less criticism in general. I do all the late nights myself since it is so easy for me to fall back asleep. I also do non-stop activities and chores on my days off so my wife can work.
I’m heading out for cigarettes and milk