[Article] Haidt and Pargin on how to be a total loser

Haidt's 3 Great Untruths:

The generation now coming of age has been taught three Great Untruths: their feelings are always right; they should avoid pain and discomfort; and they should look for faults in others and not themselves. These three Great Untruths are part of a larger philosophy that sees young people as fragile creatures who must be protected and supervised by adults.

Jason Pargin's ways you will resist self-improvement:
https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person

*Intentionally Interpreting Any Criticism as an Insult
*Focusing on the Messenger to Avoid Hearing the Message
*Focusing on the Tone to Avoid Hearing the Content
*Revising Your Own History
*Pretending That Any Self-Improvement Would Somehow Be Selling Out Your True Self
*Delaying any self-improvement until the entire world changes to accommodate you