That tiny disclaimer at the bottom is doing a massive amount of heavy lifting for this meme.
rosylettersx on
Glad you included the fine print at the bottom. The difference between ‘I regret that happened’ and ‘I withdrew consent in the moment’ is a massive legal and ethical canyon that people often ignore.
number31388 on
People want to sleep with you? Must be nice.
mintywhirlx on
We’ve all had those ‘What was I thinking?’ mornings. It’s okay to acknowledge a bad decision without needing to rebrand it as something else.
kinokomushroom on
I don’t get it. Is this a programming joke about pointers?
WkwkIndog on
The disclaimer makes it funnier😂
Rosey_Coyote_525 on
99% of women who tell friends or new boy-toys that they wewere “raped”:
Like no. Regret does ***not*** equal rape. “You” “fought” to be equal with men, that means taking some self accountability and responsibility.
Pitiful_Lie4818 on
This is why I’m saving for marriage. I don’t want any more regrets
Worldly-Confusion759 on
Why would you need to specify “some” women? Isn’t it obvious that when you say women x, it doesn’t mean all of them? That’s how it’s supposed to work with men, right?
L0veTeens on
The sequel no one asked for.
23-1-20-3-8-5-18 on
I see you’ve been on threads.
Fourteen14XIV on
See, now that’s better.
onlyslightlyabusive on
and just because she didn’t scream NOOO doesn’t mean you had consent – if she was silent and not saying yes (bc she was likely frozen in fear from having already said no theee times and you weren’t listening)
absence of a “no” does not mean she said “yes” – especially after now has already been said once. Pressured sex IS rape. Sex without explicit consent (lack of a yes even – without a loud no) IS rape
Efficient-Orchid-594 on
Internet when women generalized or say something bad about men : 😝
Internet when men slightly criticize women 😡😡😡
That_guy_8290 on
I call it the buyers remorse accusation phenomena. So many #metoo accounts ended up just being a woman who enthusiastically consented and then were ashamed the next morning when they saw who they went to bed with.
bored_stoat on
The disclaimer is what makes the difference between lack of consent and regret.
dappermanV-88 on
My gf made the joke, if we broke up. Id need to carry consent forms with how some women be.
Happy thats never happening! Lol
U bieber fans can zip it
Aldra1 on
yeah see the thing is that “women saying regretting a past consent makes it void” is just not existant. That’s not a thing. That’s just a meme. That does not happen.
sudanesegamer on
Fr. The way they claim they were raped and its jist them regretting having banged someone but never once thinking to say no to them is just stupid. Thats on you, guys arent mind readers
PsychologyAdept669 on
with the number of both men and women who are rape victims compared to the number of false accusations, what is even the point of this? you’re more likely to be raped as a man than to be falsely accused of SA.
you don’t even have to say “no” for it to be nonconsensual. pushing away, or making sounds or expressions of pain matters as well. sex isn’t smth a person just agrees to and then that’s that, they’re not leasing their body to another person for them to do whatever tf they want with it, it’s a constant ongoing negotiation between 2 people.
if a person isn’t ok w that, man or woman, they should stick to solo masturbating and stop having sex before they hurt somebody.
cosmernautfourtwenty on
I mean, if you have to put this many caveats into making a meme, maybe you should just not? It’s like having to explain your punchline to make sure the joke is funny. That’s not how any of this works.
Turning whatever bullshit relationship experience you or someone you know had into a shitty meme doesn’t make it a universally relatable experience, and I’m tired of pretending it does.
bihuginn on
Yes, but also consent under pressure is not consent.
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That tiny disclaimer at the bottom is doing a massive amount of heavy lifting for this meme.
Glad you included the fine print at the bottom. The difference between ‘I regret that happened’ and ‘I withdrew consent in the moment’ is a massive legal and ethical canyon that people often ignore.
People want to sleep with you? Must be nice.
We’ve all had those ‘What was I thinking?’ mornings. It’s okay to acknowledge a bad decision without needing to rebrand it as something else.
I don’t get it. Is this a programming joke about pointers?
The disclaimer makes it funnier😂
99% of women who tell friends or new boy-toys that they wewere “raped”:
Like no. Regret does ***not*** equal rape. “You” “fought” to be equal with men, that means taking some self accountability and responsibility.
This is why I’m saving for marriage. I don’t want any more regrets
Why would you need to specify “some” women? Isn’t it obvious that when you say women x, it doesn’t mean all of them? That’s how it’s supposed to work with men, right?
The sequel no one asked for.
I see you’ve been on threads.
See, now that’s better.
and just because she didn’t scream NOOO doesn’t mean you had consent – if she was silent and not saying yes (bc she was likely frozen in fear from having already said no theee times and you weren’t listening)
absence of a “no” does not mean she said “yes” – especially after now has already been said once. Pressured sex IS rape. Sex without explicit consent (lack of a yes even – without a loud no) IS rape
Internet when women generalized or say something bad about men : 😝
Internet when men slightly criticize women 😡😡😡
I call it the buyers remorse accusation phenomena. So many #metoo accounts ended up just being a woman who enthusiastically consented and then were ashamed the next morning when they saw who they went to bed with.
The disclaimer is what makes the difference between lack of consent and regret.
My gf made the joke, if we broke up. Id need to carry consent forms with how some women be.
Happy thats never happening! Lol
U bieber fans can zip it
yeah see the thing is that “women saying regretting a past consent makes it void” is just not existant. That’s not a thing. That’s just a meme. That does not happen.
Fr. The way they claim they were raped and its jist them regretting having banged someone but never once thinking to say no to them is just stupid. Thats on you, guys arent mind readers
with the number of both men and women who are rape victims compared to the number of false accusations, what is even the point of this? you’re more likely to be raped as a man than to be falsely accused of SA.
you don’t even have to say “no” for it to be nonconsensual. pushing away, or making sounds or expressions of pain matters as well. sex isn’t smth a person just agrees to and then that’s that, they’re not leasing their body to another person for them to do whatever tf they want with it, it’s a constant ongoing negotiation between 2 people.
if a person isn’t ok w that, man or woman, they should stick to solo masturbating and stop having sex before they hurt somebody.
I mean, if you have to put this many caveats into making a meme, maybe you should just not? It’s like having to explain your punchline to make sure the joke is funny. That’s not how any of this works.
Turning whatever bullshit relationship experience you or someone you know had into a shitty meme doesn’t make it a universally relatable experience, and I’m tired of pretending it does.
Yes, but also consent under pressure is not consent.