Unpopular opinion, a lot of women do not want you to be yourself. Many will leave fast if you can’t simply give them what they want cause it’s too complicated and difficult to figure things out together and they have 5 other dudes lined up anyway to try out. Is how it is, focus on working on yourself and figuring out who you are before you engage romantically because most women do not have the patience to do that for you. There’s too many options to care about you initially anyway. She won’t magically give you the confidence you’ve been looking for.
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A_Banana_For_Scale_ on
We go gym. Best therapy
treletraj on
I’ve lived this, and the mistake of opening up has negatively affected the rest of my life since. This one is real guys, don’t do it.
Adam-Voight on
Yeah I wish I never had to learn that lesson.
brandothesavage on
You mean when you’re honest and then later on it turns into well I can’t tell you anything.
pamcakevictim on
That’s how I lost my wife
ac_cossack on
I like men who are open with their feelings and emotions.
Cry once because your friend died.
You pussy. Dumped.
🤷♂️
penguinite33 on
As with everything in life, it depends on the people involved.
Schmed_lap on
Women hate when you are actually open about your feelings
This has never happened to me, either I married the one woman on earth who doesn’t weaponize my feelings against me, or a bunch of you guys have really shitty taste in women.
Onyx_Undertaker5765 on
I feel like I should send this to my ex.
Ryachaz on
Her: “I want you to open up about your feelings and be emotionally available. What is on your mind?”
Some of you: “She’s not really a child, she just has the body of one, she’s actually a 1,000 year old shapeshifting dragon. It’s totally okay if I’m sexually attracted to her.”
DeadAndBuried23 on
Goomba
charlie10vet on
sometimes I get a little misty watching sappy movies -> awwwww!
sometimes I’m not sure if I can make it through the day -> ewwwww!
Kringepartybunny on
Never witnessed a Women do this irl. She probably just fake or wants something from you. And it aint friendship.
buttdstroyer on
Some of y’all are marrying pieces of shit…..How do you not figure this out before marriage??
thejuanjo234 on
Why would you like to be in a relationship if you can’t open your feeling with your parent? Have you even had a loving partner? It’s impossible to develop true love if you don’t open sentimentaly to someone.
Capable-Cupcake-209 on
The Patriarchy hurts us all.
Specialist_Tax9181 on
You should never have feelings to tell lol, women don’t want some whiney woman-like thing looking back at them, they feel like they do, but they don’t, me? Anything other than the most important shit going on in my heart died like 5 years ago, now I know my prioritize and they aren’t “boohoo! Bad thingy happened!”
Be a fuckin man
Narrow_Lee on
CHICKEN BOY! 🤏 Errhh 🤏 errhh 🤏 errr….
_heidin on
Being open about your feelings entails communicating well and not being an ass about it, and , sadly, sometimes people that don’t talk about feelings and bottle up are emotionally immature enough to then just hurt with words when talking about their feelings.
And then when they get called out for it, they just take it as an attack and a justification to keep not talking about feelings and not putting in the effort to mature.
Wendigo_Bob on
(long range hug)
Raptr951 on
Y’all are such incel’s lol
PsychologyAdept669 on
my bf told me he thought emotions were smth that people made up to win social interactions. like he thought emotions/feelings were a chosen social rule system like language. reduced emotionality def comes with its own challenges but it’s better than the dudes who will straight up lie to you abt what’s in their brains bc their feelings might get hurt… like who are you trying to be, my dad? 😭😂
Courtneymaix on
The look of a woman who just realized she opened a door she can no longer close.
stupled on
This is a “never again” moment
Spikeupmylife on
I had an ex who wanted me to open up. In the moment, it wasn’t bad, but when she used it against me in an argument later, I knew the relationship was over.
UchihaLegolas on
God forbid if u cry in front of them, they get the ick and are no longer attracted to u. And they will use ur vulnerability to emotionally hurt u when they want.
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The emotional bait and switch is too real
When she doesn’t do this, you know she’s a keeper
Inb4 “You’re doing it wrong”
Inb4 “She’s not your therapist”
Inb4 “Incel”
So accurate. We’ve all fallen for that once.
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Unpopular opinion, a lot of women do not want you to be yourself. Many will leave fast if you can’t simply give them what they want cause it’s too complicated and difficult to figure things out together and they have 5 other dudes lined up anyway to try out. Is how it is, focus on working on yourself and figuring out who you are before you engage romantically because most women do not have the patience to do that for you. There’s too many options to care about you initially anyway. She won’t magically give you the confidence you’ve been looking for.
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We go gym. Best therapy
I’ve lived this, and the mistake of opening up has negatively affected the rest of my life since. This one is real guys, don’t do it.
Yeah I wish I never had to learn that lesson.
You mean when you’re honest and then later on it turns into well I can’t tell you anything.
That’s how I lost my wife
I like men who are open with their feelings and emotions.
Cry once because your friend died.
You pussy. Dumped.
🤷♂️
As with everything in life, it depends on the people involved.
Women hate when you are actually open about your feelings
[Hank Handles Feelings](https://youtu.be/ZcMuWdsLRuA?si=h44Bw5XV4URC1FUo)
This has never happened to me, either I married the one woman on earth who doesn’t weaponize my feelings against me, or a bunch of you guys have really shitty taste in women.
I feel like I should send this to my ex.
Her: “I want you to open up about your feelings and be emotionally available. What is on your mind?”
Some of you: “She’s not really a child, she just has the body of one, she’s actually a 1,000 year old shapeshifting dragon. It’s totally okay if I’m sexually attracted to her.”
Goomba
sometimes I get a little misty watching sappy movies -> awwwww!
sometimes I’m not sure if I can make it through the day -> ewwwww!
Never witnessed a Women do this irl. She probably just fake or wants something from you. And it aint friendship.
Some of y’all are marrying pieces of shit…..How do you not figure this out before marriage??
Why would you like to be in a relationship if you can’t open your feeling with your parent? Have you even had a loving partner? It’s impossible to develop true love if you don’t open sentimentaly to someone.
The Patriarchy hurts us all.
You should never have feelings to tell lol, women don’t want some whiney woman-like thing looking back at them, they feel like they do, but they don’t, me? Anything other than the most important shit going on in my heart died like 5 years ago, now I know my prioritize and they aren’t “boohoo! Bad thingy happened!”
Be a fuckin man
CHICKEN BOY! 🤏 Errhh 🤏 errhh 🤏 errr….
Being open about your feelings entails communicating well and not being an ass about it, and , sadly, sometimes people that don’t talk about feelings and bottle up are emotionally immature enough to then just hurt with words when talking about their feelings.
And then when they get called out for it, they just take it as an attack and a justification to keep not talking about feelings and not putting in the effort to mature.
(long range hug)
Y’all are such incel’s lol
my bf told me he thought emotions were smth that people made up to win social interactions. like he thought emotions/feelings were a chosen social rule system like language. reduced emotionality def comes with its own challenges but it’s better than the dudes who will straight up lie to you abt what’s in their brains bc their feelings might get hurt… like who are you trying to be, my dad? 😭😂
The look of a woman who just realized she opened a door she can no longer close.
This is a “never again” moment
I had an ex who wanted me to open up. In the moment, it wasn’t bad, but when she used it against me in an argument later, I knew the relationship was over.
God forbid if u cry in front of them, they get the ick and are no longer attracted to u. And they will use ur vulnerability to emotionally hurt u when they want.