Single life is peaceful… why disturb the ecosystem?
FeedMeYourSecret on
Nah, they will only spawn when you’re dating
CAustin3 on
* Be young man
* Try hard to impress and pursue women
* Find relationships, but unhappy lopsided ones where you feel like you want your partner more than they want you
* Get sick of it, stop pursuing
* Be single
* Sucks, because society thinks single men are losers
* Gradually learn how to make yourself happy, care less about what society thinks
* Become genuinely happy and satisfied with your lifestyle, living for yourself and not others
* Women start being attracted to you and approaching you because you’re confident and established
* FUCK
Upbeat_Tooth_4121 on
Its a canon event
Proper-Pitch-792 on
I don’t think that’s how that works.
NoWingedHussarsToday on
Don’t worry, you’ll wake up sooner or later
Impossible-Run-8016 on
It’s the time of year, no doubt.
createthiscom on
This happens to me after about 6 months of being alone.
Spritzendifizen on
I find it interesting that when I was interested in a relationship, the environment was a desert.
But now that i have been on the “the answer is no, I don’t care who it is” boat for four years now (and maintain boundaries to preserve that), it’s the opposite.
Que the Palpatine meme: “ironic”
Outcast_Outlaw on
According to other reddit posts shes not showing interest in you, shes just doing her job.
EmotionalBar2533 on
Marus1 on
No, that woman at starbucks did not show interest in you, OP. They just want you to pay for the coffee you ordered
ShortBet1 on
I am very happily single. I am living my best life. They new guy at work asked me about myself and I explained I’m A sexual don’t date and never have I been happier in my life. And he goes I hope you figure things out and get the relationship you deserve. Like Sir I am the relationship I deserve, did you not hear me just explain that. Lol
Icount_zeroI on
And next day, without you know it she’s breastfeeding your child.
PsychologicalEye8161 on
Same here except more just I’m content being alone and sad and suddenly some fucker reminds me some people are happy and has to give me false hope
Bejaminmaston12 on
Doubt
Arcaneus_Umbra on
Mortuus-Sum on
Connections show up most when you stop searching for them because you’re no longer radiating need, pressure, or performance. You’re simply living your life and that naturally makes you more authentic, confident, and emotionally safe to be around.
The flower doesn’t chase the bee; it simply blooms.
SplatNode on
I wanna be in a relationship without the problems that being in a relationship causes lol
Like no I don’t wanna have to sacrifice my life for someone
HasOneHere on
They flirt for tips.
memesearches on
This happens. Personally whats worse is when she is not the one and she leaves thats when you hit the real low and so difficult to make it back to who you were before.
rakia_doge on
Have been content with being forever single for 3 years now, 0 women shown any interest.
Silverbacker888 on
My gf left me last night. Thanks Reddit
Twixchan45 on
I’m fine with being single, but eventually I still wanna find a guy to show interest towards. Maybe one day
Previous-Track175 on
This is such an incel sub
TheUnholyMacerel on
I only just started being happy with how I was single but what’s funny is the second that happened my girlfriend confessed to having feelings for me, honestly couldn’t be happier but its kinda funny that happened
FreeRange_Chickens on
/r/absolutelynotmeirl
frozengoodness on
The last one still costs me 800 dollars a month. So yes I very much react like Dwight
HatRemov3r on
Stop bragging
Betorange on
That’s usually when you’re most likely to meet someone. People actively trying to date can look too desperate which can be off putting.
Basically, if you look hungry, you’ll starve.
RichardBCummintonite on
My friends trying to set me up with shitty dates because they can’t be happy without being in a relationship and think I’m lonely and need to be in one too…
I love myself enough to be content with my own company and friendsfamily. I’m in my early 30s. I don’t want to be in a relationship just to be in one. Been there done that with people I really wasn’t interested in seeing long term. Just caused more stress than joy
The worst part is that I’m so comfortable in my own space and at peace that the prospect of a relationship makes me want to run away at olympic speeds; (i have severe commitment issues and have recently come to terms with that I’m better off alone)
st90ar on
Jokes on you, I’m autistic, so I don’t pick up on social cues.
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Women show interest in you?
Single life is peaceful… why disturb the ecosystem?
Nah, they will only spawn when you’re dating
* Be young man
* Try hard to impress and pursue women
* Find relationships, but unhappy lopsided ones where you feel like you want your partner more than they want you
* Get sick of it, stop pursuing
* Be single
* Sucks, because society thinks single men are losers
* Gradually learn how to make yourself happy, care less about what society thinks
* Become genuinely happy and satisfied with your lifestyle, living for yourself and not others
* Women start being attracted to you and approaching you because you’re confident and established
* FUCK
Its a canon event
I don’t think that’s how that works.
Don’t worry, you’ll wake up sooner or later
It’s the time of year, no doubt.
This happens to me after about 6 months of being alone.
I find it interesting that when I was interested in a relationship, the environment was a desert.
But now that i have been on the “the answer is no, I don’t care who it is” boat for four years now (and maintain boundaries to preserve that), it’s the opposite.
Que the Palpatine meme: “ironic”
According to other reddit posts shes not showing interest in you, shes just doing her job.
No, that woman at starbucks did not show interest in you, OP. They just want you to pay for the coffee you ordered
I am very happily single. I am living my best life. They new guy at work asked me about myself and I explained I’m A sexual don’t date and never have I been happier in my life. And he goes I hope you figure things out and get the relationship you deserve. Like Sir I am the relationship I deserve, did you not hear me just explain that. Lol
And next day, without you know it she’s breastfeeding your child.
Same here except more just I’m content being alone and sad and suddenly some fucker reminds me some people are happy and has to give me false hope
Doubt
Connections show up most when you stop searching for them because you’re no longer radiating need, pressure, or performance. You’re simply living your life and that naturally makes you more authentic, confident, and emotionally safe to be around.
The flower doesn’t chase the bee; it simply blooms.
I wanna be in a relationship without the problems that being in a relationship causes lol
Like no I don’t wanna have to sacrifice my life for someone
They flirt for tips.
This happens. Personally whats worse is when she is not the one and she leaves thats when you hit the real low and so difficult to make it back to who you were before.
Have been content with being forever single for 3 years now, 0 women shown any interest.
My gf left me last night. Thanks Reddit
I’m fine with being single, but eventually I still wanna find a guy to show interest towards. Maybe one day
This is such an incel sub
I only just started being happy with how I was single but what’s funny is the second that happened my girlfriend confessed to having feelings for me, honestly couldn’t be happier but its kinda funny that happened
/r/absolutelynotmeirl
The last one still costs me 800 dollars a month. So yes I very much react like Dwight
Stop bragging
That’s usually when you’re most likely to meet someone. People actively trying to date can look too desperate which can be off putting.
Basically, if you look hungry, you’ll starve.
My friends trying to set me up with shitty dates because they can’t be happy without being in a relationship and think I’m lonely and need to be in one too…
I love myself enough to be content with my own company and friendsfamily. I’m in my early 30s. I don’t want to be in a relationship just to be in one. Been there done that with people I really wasn’t interested in seeing long term. Just caused more stress than joy
And then she breaks your heart
You are literally Ross in this scenario
https://youtu.be/mzJAmsEpYN0?si=K3uJvj_NbrR5jaqG
The worst part is that I’m so comfortable in my own space and at peace that the prospect of a relationship makes me want to run away at olympic speeds; (i have severe commitment issues and have recently come to terms with that I’m better off alone)
Jokes on you, I’m autistic, so I don’t pick up on social cues.