Dont worry man, it only gets harder each time BUT thankfully, you will find the courage to give up entirely.
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sumemodude on
What if she says yes?
SlippinGymy on
Most people don’t wanna talked to in the gym let alone be hit on
Historicalkiim on
Plot twist: She says yes and now you have to actually talk to someone at the gym instead of just staring at the floor between sets. Worst case scenario.
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made_of_maybe on
The plan is as solid as a Swiss watch
Andyham on
r/2meirl4meirl
Saif_Horny_And_Mad on
Or just do what i did and give up entirely. You have no idea how much time, money and headaches/ heartaches this saved me
flickmybiscuit on
Man, Durand Jones in the wild
Qweeq13 on
Speaking from experience I would suggest not to do that as I have asked out girls several times each time making things a lot worse.
It will be very easy for you to keep obsessing about someone even more especially because they rejected you only now also feel hatred and self-loathing towards them too just because you will feel disrespected. Even thought it is you who caused all your problems.
If I was able to turn the clock back, I would’ve never in my life went out of my way to ask a girl out if I am not friends with her first. Or at the least in friendly terms for sometime. At least learn enough about them to know if you even have a chance in hell or not.
If you ask someone out and that is literally the first time you actually spoke to them it will be a bad.
AuroraStarcrest on
The gym membership is about to get really awkward or really legendary.
DesperateEntrance389 on
If you are average looking, there are few places you don’t ask a girl out : Gym, office, inside subway/train, any cashier/receptionist
ava_waifu on
honestly the peace of mind is totally worth the 5 seconds of embarrassment
rosyvibexz on
500mg of caffeine and a fresh rejection to fuel the leg day from hell.
Bubbly_Engineering88 on
Had that thought before and glad I didn’t follow through. Gym is really meant for nondating for my experience
r0ckashocka on
Time to begin the humiliation ritual
TBSsuxs on
You have to let us know op. We all are rooting for you.
ThisIsPaulDaily on
A friend of mine talked to me for a year about this girl he worked out with every day. I flew out to see him and go to the gym with him to vibe check.Â
She worked at the gym.Â
They were friends, but only friends. It was heartbreaking to see how different the situation was than what was interpreted.Â
This particular gym was a specific activity which requires a partner and people who go individually can partner with staff or with another guest depending on how busy it is. He just went every day during off peak times and since they actually had a friendship she didn’t mind being his.Â
100 platonic intention from her side. In fact she had a posse of suiters at the gym wanting to partner with her.Â
My friend stopped going to that gym after an injury. Poetically I think his heart was injured more than his broken leg.Â
Cryptographer_Prize on
TTS
keyas920 on
Worst she can say is Yes
ienybu on
With my wife*
Alarming-Damage2192 on
but then she said yes and you two starts to going out. you’re in heaven first few weeks but slowly you realize she overstep boundaries and incredible controlling. after a while you lose lot of your selflove and starts thinking you don’t deserve her and should be thankful she is dating you even tho she mentally abuse you and makes you feels like everything is your fault. after a while your friends get involved and urge to break up with her because you were always gloomy. but you don’t because you’re lucky to have a such beautiful girl as your girlfriend and your friends are just jealous of you.
sarcastictone953 on
I am at the same stage so I can up my game the moment she reject me coz I know I can get better deal elsewhere with the peace of mind that I gave my best.
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Dont worry man, it only gets harder each time BUT thankfully, you will find the courage to give up entirely.
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What if she says yes?
Most people don’t wanna talked to in the gym let alone be hit on
Plot twist: She says yes and now you have to actually talk to someone at the gym instead of just staring at the floor between sets. Worst case scenario.
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The plan is as solid as a Swiss watch
r/2meirl4meirl
Or just do what i did and give up entirely. You have no idea how much time, money and headaches/ heartaches this saved me
Man, Durand Jones in the wild
Speaking from experience I would suggest not to do that as I have asked out girls several times each time making things a lot worse.
It will be very easy for you to keep obsessing about someone even more especially because they rejected you only now also feel hatred and self-loathing towards them too just because you will feel disrespected. Even thought it is you who caused all your problems.
If I was able to turn the clock back, I would’ve never in my life went out of my way to ask a girl out if I am not friends with her first. Or at the least in friendly terms for sometime. At least learn enough about them to know if you even have a chance in hell or not.
If you ask someone out and that is literally the first time you actually spoke to them it will be a bad.
The gym membership is about to get really awkward or really legendary.
If you are average looking, there are few places you don’t ask a girl out : Gym, office, inside subway/train, any cashier/receptionist
honestly the peace of mind is totally worth the 5 seconds of embarrassment
500mg of caffeine and a fresh rejection to fuel the leg day from hell.
Had that thought before and glad I didn’t follow through. Gym is really meant for nondating for my experience
Time to begin the humiliation ritual
You have to let us know op. We all are rooting for you.
A friend of mine talked to me for a year about this girl he worked out with every day. I flew out to see him and go to the gym with him to vibe check.Â
She worked at the gym.Â
They were friends, but only friends. It was heartbreaking to see how different the situation was than what was interpreted.Â
This particular gym was a specific activity which requires a partner and people who go individually can partner with staff or with another guest depending on how busy it is. He just went every day during off peak times and since they actually had a friendship she didn’t mind being his.Â
100 platonic intention from her side. In fact she had a posse of suiters at the gym wanting to partner with her.Â
My friend stopped going to that gym after an injury. Poetically I think his heart was injured more than his broken leg.Â
TTS
Worst she can say is Yes
With my wife*
but then she said yes and you two starts to going out. you’re in heaven first few weeks but slowly you realize she overstep boundaries and incredible controlling. after a while you lose lot of your selflove and starts thinking you don’t deserve her and should be thankful she is dating you even tho she mentally abuse you and makes you feels like everything is your fault. after a while your friends get involved and urge to break up with her because you were always gloomy. but you don’t because you’re lucky to have a such beautiful girl as your girlfriend and your friends are just jealous of you.
I am at the same stage so I can up my game the moment she reject me coz I know I can get better deal elsewhere with the peace of mind that I gave my best.
Do this service for yourself
Finally, inner peace