i’m pretty sure my ex actually caused that exact fire in the top picture, just saying
Prestigenx on
The top one is a literal documentary of my last relationship. I was the fire.
maryleveling on
boys will describe a literal demon who ruined their life and end it with “but i kinda miss her tbh”
zephyrnoira on
The bottom picture is missing the part where the “peaceful city” is actually a silent movie because he hasn’t talked about it in 5 years.
Lucylanx on
The bottom picture is missing the part where he hasn’t checked his bank account or his dignity in six months.
UnluckyWinner3163 on
It depends on the person really
Rocketeer1019 on
Cause playing victim gets the next man to feel pity
Davefhtex on
Interesting meme and some truth to it, mind you, I would have the Titanic as the associated image for my first wife, and a mushroom cloud for the first girl I lived with, but otherwise I agree with this.
femboyisbestboy on
I have an ex for both pictures.
One is still a friend and the other probably needs to be in an institution as she is crazy.
Gerry1of1 on
I’m a boy and that’s not how I describe the ex .
This is…
lillywasnothere on
Wrong my ex was heavenly, he passed away tho
caeliflareeth on
It’s easy to describe them as a peaceful city when you’ve successfully blocked every single memory of why you broke up.
dingoonmygringo on
Nope
a_polarbear_chilling on
they both are delusional
Shard0f0dium on
“He was like, literally abusive!”
“Oh my god, he hit you?!”
“No, like *emotionally* abusive”
“That’s terrible, what happened?”
“He raised his voice at me after he found out I cheated…”
HexaBurger on
I could say many many bad things about my ex but he was such a sweetheart.
Although I did end up as a person that tries to avoid relationships now.
(For the record I am a man)
Current_Poster on
I just kind of levelled it. With one exception, every gf I had “didn’t work out” (was it her? was it me? Was it us? was it the phase of the moon, or her having to go back to Canada or something? Who cares, it ‘didn’t work out’.)
One special person is Worst Girlfriend Ever, but that’s just for efficiency. 🙂 And even her, I missed her family.
AmunRa666 on
I wouldn’t describe the majority of my ex’s from the bottom picture. The top one more likely. However that isn’t to say the bottom doesn’t apply to one or two of them.
TommyWantWingy9 on
My soon to be ex is a nightmare
leon_262 on
I just hope she’s doing better
TheLoreIdiot on
As a dude, I dont feel this is accurate at all
NehEma on
I’m a lass and have only one ex I’m not really close to.
Your_Worship on
I ended up marrying my ex.
It wasn’t a toxic thing, it was a distance thing.
DylanFTW on
I surrrreeee do love it when Reddit speaks for me as a man and would never make such a blanket statement.
Solid-Version on
This just isn’t true. Like at all
ThemightyMacaroni on
NEDERLAND JIPPIEEEEEE
Extension_Answer5512 on
Actually it’s just the top image for both lmao
Marthacums on
Boys: ‘She was an angel.’ Also Boys: ‘I have changed my locks and my identity.
stang2184699 on
It’s not accurate
xCaptainCl3mentinex on
Coping mechanism. Its easier to let go if you hate them.
Also men in the relationship are more likely to self sabotage and then regret it.
And men’s standards are often lower. She’s mean and toxic? Who cares, shes nice sometimes and kinda pretty and gives me attention.
Also, women more often get love or attention from non romantic relationships, while men don’t, which makes their relationships more significant to look back on because someone loving them or giving them attention is something they only get from them (and maybe their mama)
Doppelgen on
Fake. We all know well that men often their past relationships by blaming her exes as crazy women.
Easy_Turn1988 on
I can’t relate, all my exes were monsters and I was an amazing guy every time
On a serious note, I don’t think there’s a gender correlation. I’ve heard people talk about their exes in various ways, no matter the gender
Hollybogged on
Gender war rage bait. That is all.
Phill_is_Legend on
It’s not true. In both genders, immature people shit talk their ex without realizing it reflects poorly on their taste/choices. Mature people will recognize and admit that there was either an incompatibility or they should have known better.
Gottendrop on
Depends on both people tbh
Future_Purchase7098 on
Because women already picked their next victim and want us to hate them as much as they do.
Tbh bro probably did notrhing wrong. Like really. My bad dude.
Coldthots on
Idk this makes me think you’ve never been around a man, it’s always that all of his exes were crazy psychos and he never did anything wrong he swears
whatokaybutwhy on
No man has ever described me like that.
Outrageous-Being869 on
I have NEVER heard a man describe their ex as the bottom photo. They always tell me about their ex as the top photo
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Nah man. She was draining.
i’m pretty sure my ex actually caused that exact fire in the top picture, just saying
The top one is a literal documentary of my last relationship. I was the fire.
boys will describe a literal demon who ruined their life and end it with “but i kinda miss her tbh”
The bottom picture is missing the part where the “peaceful city” is actually a silent movie because he hasn’t talked about it in 5 years.
The bottom picture is missing the part where he hasn’t checked his bank account or his dignity in six months.
It depends on the person really
Cause playing victim gets the next man to feel pity
Interesting meme and some truth to it, mind you, I would have the Titanic as the associated image for my first wife, and a mushroom cloud for the first girl I lived with, but otherwise I agree with this.
I have an ex for both pictures.
One is still a friend and the other probably needs to be in an institution as she is crazy.
I’m a boy and that’s not how I describe the ex .
This is…
Wrong my ex was heavenly, he passed away tho
It’s easy to describe them as a peaceful city when you’ve successfully blocked every single memory of why you broke up.
Nope
they both are delusional
“He was like, literally abusive!”
“Oh my god, he hit you?!”
“No, like *emotionally* abusive”
“That’s terrible, what happened?”
“He raised his voice at me after he found out I cheated…”
I could say many many bad things about my ex but he was such a sweetheart.
Although I did end up as a person that tries to avoid relationships now.
(For the record I am a man)
I just kind of levelled it. With one exception, every gf I had “didn’t work out” (was it her? was it me? Was it us? was it the phase of the moon, or her having to go back to Canada or something? Who cares, it ‘didn’t work out’.)
One special person is Worst Girlfriend Ever, but that’s just for efficiency. 🙂 And even her, I missed her family.
I wouldn’t describe the majority of my ex’s from the bottom picture. The top one more likely. However that isn’t to say the bottom doesn’t apply to one or two of them.
My soon to be ex is a nightmare
I just hope she’s doing better
As a dude, I dont feel this is accurate at all
I’m a lass and have only one ex I’m not really close to.
I ended up marrying my ex.
It wasn’t a toxic thing, it was a distance thing.
I surrrreeee do love it when Reddit speaks for me as a man and would never make such a blanket statement.
This just isn’t true. Like at all
NEDERLAND JIPPIEEEEEE
Actually it’s just the top image for both lmao
Boys: ‘She was an angel.’ Also Boys: ‘I have changed my locks and my identity.
It’s not accurate
Coping mechanism. Its easier to let go if you hate them.
Also men in the relationship are more likely to self sabotage and then regret it.
And men’s standards are often lower. She’s mean and toxic? Who cares, shes nice sometimes and kinda pretty and gives me attention.
Also, women more often get love or attention from non romantic relationships, while men don’t, which makes their relationships more significant to look back on because someone loving them or giving them attention is something they only get from them (and maybe their mama)
Fake. We all know well that men often their past relationships by blaming her exes as crazy women.
I can’t relate, all my exes were monsters and I was an amazing guy every time
On a serious note, I don’t think there’s a gender correlation. I’ve heard people talk about their exes in various ways, no matter the gender
Gender war rage bait. That is all.
It’s not true. In both genders, immature people shit talk their ex without realizing it reflects poorly on their taste/choices. Mature people will recognize and admit that there was either an incompatibility or they should have known better.
Depends on both people tbh
Because women already picked their next victim and want us to hate them as much as they do.
Tbh bro probably did notrhing wrong. Like really. My bad dude.
Idk this makes me think you’ve never been around a man, it’s always that all of his exes were crazy psychos and he never did anything wrong he swears
No man has ever described me like that.
I have NEVER heard a man describe their ex as the bottom photo. They always tell me about their ex as the top photo
because girls bad boys good duh
Jokes on you I don’t have an ex
Because men aren’t actually evil