Relatable and im stuck living with her due to disabilities, how fun
MugenEXE on
Regressed due to trauma. That’s awful: I’m sorry.
ayabadabadoCH on
And my mom wonders why I was excited and eager to leave when she kicked me out of the house.
Eman_arts on
Get outta there, start a new journey
YaBoiMandatoryToms on
I’m 33 and she still treats me like this.
Puppetmaster12212 on
I remember once I had a mental breakdown and my mom told me that I am the most mentally ill person on the planet cus normal people don’t have this many mental break downs. People are fucking insane.
Gmanglh on
Have you tried not acting like a 5 year old?
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Ferule1069 on
Well, why were you acting like a 5 year old? Did you never learn how to cope with stress? Stress management is a definitive characteristic of an adult. If you can’t manage you’re, well, a 5 year old in an adult’s body.
I get that life is tough, and you’ll find countless people can’t cope. Binge drinking is one of the more common childlike responses to stress. Everybody who binge drinks is behaving childishly. Hard stop. And there’s a million other “acting out” examples we could point to.
Perhaps you would be wise to digest what your mother is saying rather than looking for validation of your inability to cope with stress from random online strangers.
MadeInAmerica1990 on
You are 20 years old. It’s time to stop blaming your mom for who she is and start figuring out why you allow it to affect you that way. You’ve got to figure this out or you’re going to spend the rest of your life blaming others for how you feel. It’s not easy!
Aggressive_Manner429 on
My mother stole my entire childhood so I threw a vase at her and went to live with a relative. 6 years on I regret nothing and life has only improved; gotta cut out the bad parts of your life even if they’re the biggest parts of it
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Khajiit_Has_Upvotes on
I told my mom in my early 20s I was on the verge of a complete nervous breakdown and was contemplating suicide.
She did a snorty laugh like I’d just told her I was planning to marry my MLP body pillow, like I’d just said some cringey dork ass thing.
Never again 🙂
Ratattack1204 on
This seems to be leaving out some key details.
Were you acting like a five year old? Why was she yelling at you?
thupamayn on
So it worked?
ogreofzen on
Yeah my dad is upset that I told my psych doctor about my childhood. His exact words were “If it didn’t bother you then why does it bother you now. You told the doctor that just to get drugs”.
Yeah Dad sure I lied to a doctor to pay 15.00 a month to get lithium that messed up my thyroid and gave me chronic diarrhea for 13 years. I mean sure lithium and latuda are the go to drugs for raging opioid addicts across the globe.
PorcOftheSea on
It’s always people who are parents who have a lack of empathy….
The_Machine80 on
Yelled at? Jeez I would have taken a ass chewing 100 times over a ass beating. Gen X talking here and I dont hate my parents a bit!
ghost_tapioca on
“I have no idea how to deal with your feelings so I’ll shame you into not showing them near me.”
Pale-Ad-8691 on
I didn’t know it was in so many parents’ best interest to be put in a retirement home
LemonManDerpy on
I’m autistic and emotionally delayed, when my moms boyfriend was fucking yelling at me for some dumb shit and I was curled up having a panic attack, him yelling “WHAT ARE YOU 3?” definitely totally helped yeah
acecatmom98 on
Going no contact with my emotionally abusive, extremely draining mother was one of the best things I’ve ever done for my mental health and quality of life. Hope you can get to a place where you can do that soon!!
HBmilkar on
I’m sorry for you
TangerineTasty9787 on
These comments always remind who is actually posting on Reddit, lol
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Sounds like you were acting like a 5 year old…
Or at least that’s what your mom said last night…
Relatable and im stuck living with her due to disabilities, how fun
Regressed due to trauma. That’s awful: I’m sorry.
And my mom wonders why I was excited and eager to leave when she kicked me out of the house.
Get outta there, start a new journey
I’m 33 and she still treats me like this.
I remember once I had a mental breakdown and my mom told me that I am the most mentally ill person on the planet cus normal people don’t have this many mental break downs. People are fucking insane.
Have you tried not acting like a 5 year old?
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Well, why were you acting like a 5 year old? Did you never learn how to cope with stress? Stress management is a definitive characteristic of an adult. If you can’t manage you’re, well, a 5 year old in an adult’s body.
I get that life is tough, and you’ll find countless people can’t cope. Binge drinking is one of the more common childlike responses to stress. Everybody who binge drinks is behaving childishly. Hard stop. And there’s a million other “acting out” examples we could point to.
Perhaps you would be wise to digest what your mother is saying rather than looking for validation of your inability to cope with stress from random online strangers.
You are 20 years old. It’s time to stop blaming your mom for who she is and start figuring out why you allow it to affect you that way. You’ve got to figure this out or you’re going to spend the rest of your life blaming others for how you feel. It’s not easy!
My mother stole my entire childhood so I threw a vase at her and went to live with a relative. 6 years on I regret nothing and life has only improved; gotta cut out the bad parts of your life even if they’re the biggest parts of it
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I told my mom in my early 20s I was on the verge of a complete nervous breakdown and was contemplating suicide.
She did a snorty laugh like I’d just told her I was planning to marry my MLP body pillow, like I’d just said some cringey dork ass thing.
Never again 🙂
This seems to be leaving out some key details.
Were you acting like a five year old? Why was she yelling at you?
So it worked?
Yeah my dad is upset that I told my psych doctor about my childhood. His exact words were “If it didn’t bother you then why does it bother you now. You told the doctor that just to get drugs”.
Yeah Dad sure I lied to a doctor to pay 15.00 a month to get lithium that messed up my thyroid and gave me chronic diarrhea for 13 years. I mean sure lithium and latuda are the go to drugs for raging opioid addicts across the globe.
It’s always people who are parents who have a lack of empathy….
Yelled at? Jeez I would have taken a ass chewing 100 times over a ass beating. Gen X talking here and I dont hate my parents a bit!
“I have no idea how to deal with your feelings so I’ll shame you into not showing them near me.”
I didn’t know it was in so many parents’ best interest to be put in a retirement home
I’m autistic and emotionally delayed, when my moms boyfriend was fucking yelling at me for some dumb shit and I was curled up having a panic attack, him yelling “WHAT ARE YOU 3?” definitely totally helped yeah
Going no contact with my emotionally abusive, extremely draining mother was one of the best things I’ve ever done for my mental health and quality of life. Hope you can get to a place where you can do that soon!!
I’m sorry for you
These comments always remind who is actually posting on Reddit, lol
Ughhhhhh wtf is this post…..