As an autistic person, I hate it when people say “ret*rd(ed)”. It’s a terrible word.

    by GamingBren

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    1. _SasquatchPatrol on

      Shane Gillis has the right outlook. People who live with down syndrome are some of the best people in the world and are totally awesome. We just need to use the word to reflect positive intention.

    2. recallingmemories on

      Yeah it’s weird how it’s gained popularity recently, I’ve found it’s typically used by someone who hasn’t ever really faced adversity and has led a sheltered life mainly online

      They don’t care to understand the struggles mentally challenged people go through in society, or the struggles a mother might have in raising someone who is mentally challenged – instead, everything is a joke to them

    3. Literally me and my entire friend group are neurodivergent in some way. We all use it on each other and even call ourselves that word sometimes. Its ok if you don’t like that word, everyone has their boundaries and as long as people who are close to you respect your boundaries and dont use it on you then thats great. Its also ok when other people have different boundaries and choose to “reclaim the word” so to speak. Neither side is wrong imo.

    4. It bears a lot of weight in my eyes. I don’t use it myself but I don’t get super angry if other people do.

      I think it’s important that if someone I care about doesn’t like it being said/me saying it, that I honor their wishes. Basic respect of my friends and people I care about.

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