Already lost interest

    by tnerb253

    19 Comments

    1. Imagine that 😲, women having lives that don’t revolve around dating or constantly looking for their next hookup 🙃

    2. MasonStaycation on

      Girls have all the leverage in dating apps. Basically anyone they swipe right on or whatever is an instant match for them.

      If they are responding like that you are like some backup they have if someone else doesn’t come through or they get extra lonely. It’s dumb.

    3. If you can’t move off the app to an in person date in a day or two, move on.

      That was my rule. Always stuck by it.

      Quick chat on the app, bit of banter for initial connection then just say a clean line “let’s meet tomorrow and do a vibe check in person, I’m not looking for Tinder friends.”

    4. Whenever I see memes about the state of dating it feels like I got on the last chopper out of Nam 13 years ago

    5. TakeAseatOldMan on

      I understand if thats what someone needs but heres the perspective of a woman who takes a while to respond sometimes lmao. I don’t form any attachments based on looks or profiles, I need to know a person first to care about them. So if someone doesn’t reply to me for a while when we’re just in the talking phase, I don’t care. It takes some time to get to know someone to bond or even just to become acquaintances. I also go through long periods of time where I’m not on my phone and I assume we all have busy lives. People who are practically strangers aren’t eachothers top priority. But obviously if we have plans, I’ll make sure to keep an eye out and respond. If a guy I’d like to know better drops me for it then I assume we just aren’t a good match anyways. I just like to casually chat to see if we’re a good match for a date with no pressure.

    6. LastDirtyMartini on

      Seriously, I could have guessed when her SO or significant other was home by the timing of responses. Sadly, I didn’t.

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