To eat egg fried rice wrong

    by phatdoof

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    1. “The white man decided to make an asian dinner”

      “How can you tell?”

      “Graveyard chopsticks and spoons”

    2. fishykingfisher on

      You how putting chopsticks straight into the food makes it really practical?
      Yeah.
      Well you can’t do that because it angers people who don’t exist.

    3. Explanation from someone brought up by Chinese boomers…      

      Okay, so in western cultures, (or at least in Hollywood movies) when someone pay their respects to a deceased, they put flowers or something significant to the deceased at their headstone.     

      Now for the Chinese (I think there are others too), instead of flowers, they use lighted joss sticks, specifically 2.       

      So, if you stick your pair of chopsticks into your bowl of food in that manner shown in picture, it implies you are paying respects to the dead, who happens to be the person seating opposite you.      

      They see it as you cursing them to die soon.    

      So, a no-no, especially with very superstitious people.

    4. My mom used to complain whenever I did this lol. I was just lazy to properly set my chopsticks down when my tiny ass bowl was too full with rice

    5. Toes who nose 💀

      But fr, that’s considered disrespectful in asian culinary because it’s an offering to the dead

    6. No_Situation4785 on

      do chinese people actually care about this though? I asked a chinese friend and she just rolled her eyes and said that it’s fine to put chopsticks vertically in food

    7. Well, either they’re for dead people or not, the living people still eat them at the end so I will say my line: they looks yummy.

    8. One a school trip to Japan a Japanese kid told me not to put chopsticks vertically in a bowl of rice because it means you’re mourning the dead. That guy was kinda annoying but his mom lives in Japan so who am I to doubt it

    9. Poking chopsticks into rice resemble incense sticks that could be put in front of gravestones

    10. The only time I’ve ever seen chopsticks like that was at my Grandmothers funeral. So it heavily connotates death and associated ceremonies.

    11. LeftieLeftorium on

      Superstition is all it is. If you don’t believe it doesn’t last you. Enjoy your bowl rice.

    12. There’s an additional hidden meaning to this, which is how chinese netizens silently protest against their government.

      Mao Zedong’s son, Mao Anying, famously died on November 25th during the Korean war after cooking egg fried rice during the day, which attracted American planes to bomb his location once they notice the cooking smoke.

      This subtle protest is also done on October 24, the day of his birth. Not sure if they still do this now, but I heard chinese officials would remove post or even ban social media accounts (in China) related to egg fried rice around these dates.

    13. Chopstics upright in asia means the same thing as the plate or shot/drink glass placed upside-down in Europe. In memorial of the departed

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