[OC] Share of young American men who’ve had sex with another man

    by StatisticUrban

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    1. It is not young men who have had sex with a male partner, but those who will say they did in a survey.

      There probably were a lot more who wouldn’t admit it in the past.

      It might also help to put in the share of those who say they had a female sex partner for comparison.

    2. Budget-Option6301 on

      I’m honestly surprised it’s not higher. Also probably depends how sex is defined. Are we talking only penetration?

    3. i love everyone saying “yeah well all this shows is that they are more comfortable answering the question, it doesnt actually mean the rate has increased.”

      thats what data is for. you cant draw huge conclusions from a single census lol

    4. Genuinely didn’t expect 12%. I would’ve guessed like 4 or 5%.

      Not sure if I’m underestimating how many people are gay, or how many people experiment or something.

    5. It’d be cool to see this overlaid with women’s responses. My guess is it would be at least twice as high than men’s.

    6. A lot of people are suggesting it is more likely a change in honesty rather than underlying activity, but I am not convinced by that. Since 2000, it has become far far less consequential to be found out engaging in same-sex activity, and the advent of hookup apps makes it far easier to actually get in a position to hook up in a discreet and relatively low risk way.

    7. Maybe some correlation with the AIDs epidimic (teh decimation of our population) the way it was treated and how it is treated now. Along with more socially acceptable.

    8. LupusDeusMagnus on

      Does it matter what kind of sexual acts are in here? Because I know stories from old times that are wildly sexual but all participants would not perceive it as being having sex.

    9. Young man, there’s no need to feel down
      I said: Young man, pick yourself off the ground
      I said: Young man, ’cause you’re in a new town
      There’s no need to be unhappy

    10. I wonder what the chart would look like if we lowered the age. Younger kids do experimental stuff with each other.

    11. I’m surprised. (Not shocked, for the record, and not dismayed.) Especially since about 10% of that age group have never had sex at all. And since only 2% of American men identify as gay, and another 4% as bisexual. That suggests either a lot of curiosity, or a lot of self-delusion.

      I wonder, just by the way, what counts here as “having sex” (I wonder this about a lot of surveys on sex). Assuming anal intercourse is relatively uncommon, are we including oral sex, both as giver and recipient? Mutual masturbation? Etc.

    12. Could also be random responding—young people just skip thru surveys and answer whatever. About the same percentage answer on surveys that they are certified to operate an SSGN submarine.

    13. Seems right. There are tons of men who dip their toes in the gay pool and you would never know. Tons have wives or girlfriends.

    14. Far-Zookeepergame-64 on

      Hard to really know what is reality. Some still feel shame and won’t report as ‘yes’. Some will say ‘yes’ just to mess with the data. Ask the same question to as many Russians or Nigerians and you will get drastically lower numbers, and not because their numbers are actually fewer.

    15. Solomonopolistadt on

      I’d be interested to see how the advent of the internet, social media, and dating apps affects the percentage of young men who have had straight sex

    16. throwitfarawayfromm3 on

      I would guess it’s more to do with social acceptibility and willingness to talk about it, rather than an actual increase.

    17. Super-Chieftain5 on

      An analogue is the graph of left-handed people over time. It’s become more culturally acceptable over time.

    18. Eat_Drink_Adventure on

      I’m curious how threesomes are counted here. I know plenty of guys who are not gay but have had mmf threesomes. Technically that is sex with a man.

    19. I’m surprised it’s rising with the fact that a lot less young people are having sex in general

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