We lost our mom to an ugly battle with cancer. 12:20 am, dad woke me up that he needed help with mom. She passed away 2 hours later. It was an awful way to go and I don't think I'll ever forget those two hours.
    She was born in very rural country farm in northern Alabama.
    She had a pretty rough upbringing. Her first two husbands were very abusive.
    In the 80's, we were homeless. Living in a car. We came up with the "family business" that saved our life, allowed us to eat and occasionally stay at a motel.
    Mom made crocheted these bookworms, I sold them door-to-door for .50 cents each. My sister would go with me but i looked like Opie / Dennis the Menace / Howdy Doody and/or Alfalfa. I also had the mouth for sales, so at 8 years old I became the salesman and went to work.
    Mom crocheted these little bookworms and made afghans. Dad helped. There was a lot more to the dynamic. But mom crocheted til her fingers bled. Then she put band-aids on and kept going.
    It's what we had to do to survive.
    I often think about how hard her life was and then she had to die of cancer and it hurts like hell.
    But I just wanted to share some pictures of my mom.
    She was really a great person.
    I added a picture of her Raggedy Ann and Andy dolls. She was really proud of them. She made them then she would give them to kids.

    by Far-Blue-Mountains

    7 Comments

    1. garbagepailstoner on

      your mama was a gorgeous woman. so sorry she passed away from cancer. she crocheted some really cute things, i especially love the book worms.

    2. welding_guy_from_LI on

      Sorry for your loss .. she seemed like a wonderful beautiful soul .. ❤️ love the craft worms .. what a wonderful idea to get through tough times ..

    3. Your mom sounds like a kind soul. The Raggedy Ann and Andy dolls look so sweet and seeing them made me well up a bit. Thank you for sharing this.

    4. -okily-dokily- on

      She looks like she was so loving and affectionate. I love how she intertwined her fingers with your sister, and always had a hand holding you. Thank you for sharing this, and so sorry for your loss.

    5. Thank you for sharing about your mom. She sounds like a hell of a mom. Despite the hard times, (and those seem like very tough times) I’m sure her greatest, most rewarding job was being your mom. Just speaking as a fellow mom, having great kids makes life 1000x better and you guys seem like you were great kids to her.

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