Counterpoint: having an exit plan is a good idea and being emotionally attuned with your partner is great thing. As an introvert that no longer drinks and can only do parties/gatherings for no more than an hour without a social lubricant this is exactly the kind of support I needed.
My ex knew about my anxiety and sobriety and we used to have a signal. I wasn’t a homebody and I’d go out with her, but we’d park on the street so we didn’t get blocked in. If we caught eyes across the room or did a little thing w our hands that nobody would notice, we’d get ready to go. If she wanted to go back out, cool. Go nuts, ima be home watching kung fu movies, anime or something. Catch ya when you get back home babe.
greater_nemo on
My version of this is just making eye contact and mouthing, “you ready?” and then I look toward the door. I feel like this kind of thing is pretty standard for long term relationships? Like the line is corny but this is a thing that happens.
Beach_House_2024 on
This is the best love language 😮💨
Dangerous-Fold-4038 on
Something like “you ready to go?” Is always asked *hours* after someone is ready to go 😭. I’ve seen it far too many times.
Time-Leadership-7649 on
This is the most slept on quality your other half can have. If a guy said this to me, he gettin laid with the quickness. Probably in that same car!
fore___ on
My wife and I talk to each other like this because we love, respect, and understand each other. I’m sorry that y’all aren’t emotionally mature.
bottledsoi on
“Ey, you ready to go?”
MILFzillaReturns on
Bro that’s love language for introverts
Supreme_Salt_Lord on
No, but they should. I got exactly 1hr 25mins at a party or function before im all out juice.
Tall_Wonder_913 on
My friends and I do this for each other. Would be nice to experience it from a man..
markusdied on
and when they do… they sounds like a psycho lmfao
littytitty00 on
Date another neurodivergent person, we say shit like this to eachother.
Frodoisforthestreets on
Only takes a look to know we both wanna go home tbh
Spiritual-Leader9985 on
Finna 😂
EnigmaticX68 on
Ummmm….I do. Like all the time when the situation applies. My boyfriend jokes when I do it’s the most sexy thing he’s heard from me all night 😂
Duomaxwell18 on
My wife and I do this all the time. She is in tune to my social battery, since I get overstimulated big time at events. I do the same for her at certain functions. It just depends how close you are to one another and if you got each other backs.
Aggravating-Salt-785 on
Me and my girl are actually really good about this, she more introverted and her energy immediately changes so it’s easy to notice
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and they should tbh lmao
Bro typed that like he was trying to win a scholarship for Most Unnecessary Sentence of the Year.
Warming the car up like it’s a Michigan December in 1976
Irish goodbyes are goated no more 30min leaving convos
“You starting to act bitchy, let’s go”
Even if someone knew me that well, they would’ve just noticed that I would’ve already disappeared by then
“I’ve had enough of seeing you shaking that fine ass with no consequences get in the car!”
https://preview.redd.it/weqg8bm3q3wf1.jpeg?width=565&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=af87cc23614d7065b7ac2d0aea4d4a28d86af00e
Counterpoint: having an exit plan is a good idea and being emotionally attuned with your partner is great thing. As an introvert that no longer drinks and can only do parties/gatherings for no more than an hour without a social lubricant this is exactly the kind of support I needed.
My ex knew about my anxiety and sobriety and we used to have a signal. I wasn’t a homebody and I’d go out with her, but we’d park on the street so we didn’t get blocked in. If we caught eyes across the room or did a little thing w our hands that nobody would notice, we’d get ready to go. If she wanted to go back out, cool. Go nuts, ima be home watching kung fu movies, anime or something. Catch ya when you get back home babe.
My version of this is just making eye contact and mouthing, “you ready?” and then I look toward the door. I feel like this kind of thing is pretty standard for long term relationships? Like the line is corny but this is a thing that happens.
This is the best love language 😮💨
Something like “you ready to go?” Is always asked *hours* after someone is ready to go 😭. I’ve seen it far too many times.
This is the most slept on quality your other half can have. If a guy said this to me, he gettin laid with the quickness. Probably in that same car!
My wife and I talk to each other like this because we love, respect, and understand each other. I’m sorry that y’all aren’t emotionally mature.
“Ey, you ready to go?”
Bro that’s love language for introverts
No, but they should. I got exactly 1hr 25mins at a party or function before im all out juice.
My friends and I do this for each other. Would be nice to experience it from a man..
and when they do… they sounds like a psycho lmfao
Date another neurodivergent person, we say shit like this to eachother.
Only takes a look to know we both wanna go home tbh
Finna 😂
Ummmm….I do. Like all the time when the situation applies. My boyfriend jokes when I do it’s the most sexy thing he’s heard from me all night 😂
My wife and I do this all the time. She is in tune to my social battery, since I get overstimulated big time at events. I do the same for her at certain functions. It just depends how close you are to one another and if you got each other backs.
Me and my girl are actually really good about this, she more introverted and her energy immediately changes so it’s easy to notice
A simple “we out?” would suffice 😭
I’m sick and fucking tired of therapy speak