HolUp… you mean to tell me you don’t?

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    1. It is actually something some people have an internal monologue and others don’t, and so far science doesn’t know why there is a difference.

    2. What she thinks happening in her husband head:
      My Precioussss, We wants it, we needs it. Must have the precious.Sneaky little wifey!

    3. I have questions… do people without internal monologues/imaginations dream? What do they think of visual representations of imagining things in media like comics, cartoons, etc.? How would such people have any artistic abolities without picturing what they want to portray in their imaginations first? I literally can’t imagine entirely NOT having inner monologue/imagination at all.

    4. GuentherDonner on

      So I’m curious how narrating your thoughts sounds like? Like is a voice telling you and then you start to think about something something. Cause I would assume most would just think about stuff maybe narrating their actions sure, but like what does narrating a thought look like?

    5. Saif_Horny_And_Mad on

      A lot of people don’t have that inside monologue voice, which kinda explains a lot

    6. I do this and also talk to myself out loud ao that I can hear myself say it. When no one is around.

    7. It freaks me out that some people don’t…how else do you think? It’s exactly the same as reading for me I “hear” the words in my head in my voice.

    8. Lol im a Belgian, my native language is dutch and i had french in school but my internal voice is in English

    9. boywithflippers on

      You’d be surprised how common it is to lack an inner monologue. It’s something like 5-10% of people have none at all and around 60% don’t use it regularly. They think in images and concepts instead of regular words/language.

    10. My wife is a special ed teacher with a focus on autism. This conversation came up recently as it was one of those TIL moments for me.

      Basically, inner speech develops at different levels for different people. Certain forms of neurodivergence (for example, some autism presentations or aphantasia) can influence how vividly someone experiences inner speech or imagery.

      Some people hear words clearly in their mind, almost like an inner narrator (this is probably most people). Others think more in images, sensations, or abstract concepts rather than words. But a portion of people have almost no “inner monologue” at all. Their thoughts come as feelings or intentions rather than verbal sentences.

      It was quite shocking to learn that. For a special ed teacher (really all teachers), understanding that not everyone experiences “inner speech” or an “inner voice” in the same way has a lot of practical and empathetic implications. Differences in how students think and learn, understanding neurodiversity,cinstructional and emotional support, etc. knowing this helps a special ed teacher tailor instruction, prevent misunderstandings about a student’s abilities or motivation, foster a better supportive learning environment, and help guide setting IEP goals.

    11. I found this out when me and the wife were reading a book, I said that last scene painted a damn good picture, and one hell of a “location “ she looked at me like I had a second set of eyes. She doesn’t see or hear anything while reading or “thoughts “ like the internal monologue “ I was kinda shocked I thought everyone did………

    12. There’s a difference between a “voice narrating your thoughts” and having “internal dialog”.

      When I’m working, I dont have a voice telling me “do this, and now we do this…”, but I can have a sit and think experience where I plan something out ahead of time and it’s “narrated”.

      I think a lot of the confusion over shit like this is often more about people using imprecise words and definitions for things and assuming that the way they describe sometime is the way others understand it.

    13. I do hear the inner monologue but it’s situational, I also read that some people can’t conjure images in there head either like if you say apple they can’t see an apple appear in their mind and that’s never been an issue for me.

    14. OnoOurTableItsBr0ken on

      I can make my inner voice sound like anybody I’m currently having my thoughts narrated by Morgan freeman

    15. TheGreatSmolOne on

      I knew someone who didn’t have an internal monologue, nor could think in images. I have no clue how someone can function like that. That’s like taking away my ability to speak and see and telling me to live a normal life. I can’t I’m too used to what I’m like now

    16. I honestly thought for years they just did that to show thinking on TV and movies.

      Didn’t think anyone is having full on Jiminey Cricket sessions, apparently the GF does and most of my relatives do.

    17. She’s probably left handed and he’s right handed. There’s no scientific explanation on it but somehow I’m more logical and people I know are more creative.

    18. slaytallica36 on

      Aphantasia is also a thing, some people can’t mentally picture things either.

      I figured out last year my mother has this and didn’t realize (in her 60s now).

    19. On the same line it took me awhile till I learned that people can actually see things in their own head by just closing their eyes, I also thought it was just a metaphor, like oh yeah I can practically see the person. This gets stranger because I can see things when I dream but not just thinking about something.

    20. NamoNibblonian on

      My thoughts are like a conversation between myself and a mix of David Attenborough and/or Morgan Freeman.

    21. It’s the same voice that reads to me when I’m reading. Makes me wonder if it’s me actually doing the reading. He’s also reading to me when I type.

    22. ResponsibilityOk2173 on

      There’s something in between. You can have an inner monologue that isn’t you hearing your own voice in real time. In fact, that likely slows down thinking to one’s ability to articulate and deliver worded sentences internally.

    23. Comprehensive-Cry636 on

      More often than not I end up having full back and forth conversations with myself up until someone catches me and I shut up so I don’t sound too insane

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